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I just finished listening to this amazing book that I somehow missed a few years ago. It is Waiting For Normal by Leslie Connor. Here is a young eleven, then twelve year old whose stepfather and mother recently divorced. Because the mother left her at age nine to care for the two younger sisters, the stepfather has gained custody of them, while leaving Addie behind to cope with her mother. Sound complicated? It is. And sometimes these are the circumstances that children must face, or worse. They, like the main character Addie, are looking for normal!
At the beginning of the book, Addie and her mother, whom she calls Mommers, move into an old trailer in a remote spot near a mini-mart type of store. This appears to be all the ex-stepfather can afford as he still is paying some money to the ex-wife. The mother is furious, but Addie is shown to be a person who looks at the bright side. She loves the private ‘bedroom’ she has above the living area, with curtains! There were times I wondered how she manages in the face of her difficult circumstances. Throughout the story, Addie’s mother leaves her alone for days at a time. Luckily Addie befriends the curious group across the road that runs the mini-mart and gains support from them while continuing her own resilient ways.
It’s a long book that includes numerous twists and turns (a term Addie uses for her own family’s life) that make one ache with despair for this early adolescent.
Her life includes:
-A change to a new school
-Cooking toast dinners, with enthusiasm
-A grumpy grandfather who has washed his hands of his daughter, Addie’s mother, and unable to be much help
-A wonderful character who owns the mini-mart named Sula, who takes the role of offering the kindness that Addie needs so desperately
-A loving ex-stepfather whose hands are tied by the courts, trying to help Addie as much as he is able
-Two sweet little sisters who add some happiness to Addie’s life
-A weaving in and out of Addie’s challenges in school and the additional gift she has of listening to music and being able to re-create it in her flute playing, all because of dyslexia.
-A couple of school friends who are supportive as much as they can be
-A hamster named Piccolo that adds the warmth of companionship Addie needs
When I listened to the book, it was frustrating to hear Addie grow herself, hearing her thoughts of despair and hope, aching myself for this young child to have something go right for once in her young life. I began to think of all the other characters I’ve met just this year who’ve endured their challenges, needing help from adults and peers in their lives, and sometimes not getting that help for a long while. Sometimes these children hide their needs very well, to protect loved ones and the often-tenuous hold they have on their lives. It is a challenge for teachers and others who work with children to watch carefully for signs of need, and take action as vigorously as possible. In the recent books, I think of Augie in Wonder, Marlee in The Lions of Little Rock, Fern in See You At Harry’s, Hazel and Augustus in The Fault In Our Stars, and Conor in A Monster Calls. And now I will be reminded of Addie in Waiting for Normal. Thanks to marvelous writers, these poignant characters serve to remind us of the real characters in our lives, perhaps classrooms, which need our advocacy.
More than once, I sat parked, listening to yet another chapter before leaving my car. A woman named Angela Rogers narrated the book with such talent, I continued to ‘hear’ the voices each time I arrived at my destination and had to turn the cd off. If you can listen to the audio version of the book, do so.
In 2009, the book was named one of School Library Journal's Best Books, an ALA Notable Children's Book, and ALA Top Ten Books for Young Adults, is on Texas Lone Star Reading List, and won the 2009 Connecticut Book Award.